Across the whole Beit
Resources
Reference points for living one's Jewish identities and LGBTQIA, supporting a loved one and fostering truly welcoming communities.
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You don't need to know the right words or exactly where you stand. Simply choose the door that best suits you.
Identities, Judaism, coming out, sense of belonging: moving forward without having to choose a part of oneself.
Explore ↓02 · For a loved oneListen, find the right words and remain present without deciding for the person.
To understand ↓03 · For a collectiveConcrete actions for Jewish communities, associations and cultural spaces.
Putting into practice ↓Living one's identities
There is no single way to be Jewish or LGBTQIA. The right rhythm is the one that allows you to feel safe, supported, and legitimate.
Talking to someone from Beit ↗An identity can be understood in stages. One can explore, doubt, change words, or not want to define oneself right away.
Coming out is never an obligation. It can be prepared according to the context, the people involved, and the perceived level of safety.
A welcoming space doesn't require leaving a part of yourself at the door. It respects identities, backgrounds, and practices.
Antisemitic or homophobic remarks are never harmless. Protecting oneself and seeking support is already a legitimate response.
For loved ones
A simple, calm, and sincere response can make a huge difference.
Let the person tell their story, in their own words and without interrogation.
You may need time. She, on the other hand, needs to know that your connection remains.
Do not share anything without their consent and simply ask how you can help.
"Thank you for telling me. I'm here, and our relationship remains unchanged."
For the communities
Inclusion is not based on a perfect formula. It is built through words, habits, and the way we react when someone is hurt.
Building an intervention with the Beit ↗Speak of "partner", respect first names and pronouns, and let each person name their own journey.
Clearly state that LGBTQIA people have their place, then verify that this promise also exists in practice.
Responding to LGBTphobic and anti-Semitic remarks, protecting the targeted person and reminding everyone of the collective framework.
Memory
A 146-page book with 170 photos that traces the history of Beit Haverim and the evolution of the dialogue between Judaism and homosexuality.
This memory reminds us that our lives, our celebrations, our debates and our victories are fully part of Jewish and French history.
Write to us about the book →One question remains open
You don't need to formulate your request perfectly. Explain where you are in the process and we will try to answer you or point you in the right direction.